(Reading, therapy, talking to people, trying new things, …)
Iterated through a bunch of possible names
Sorry to about seven different possible future Sutherlands who might want a gmail address!
Eventually settled(ish) on one that keeps my initials
Explicitly because I wanted citations to “D. J. Sutherland” to stay correct
Decided to go ahead with faculty applications
Felt a lot better after Queer in AI @ NeurIPS 2018
Got some offers; picked one, deferred for a while
Started publishing + giving talks as "D.J." in the interim
A non-solution
“As an aside, I believe you should not rebrand your older papers with your new first name. This confuses all the database searches. I am afraid that your best bet is to stick to your initials only.
“Similar things happen to divorced women. For instance, [a person] was essentially forced to keep the name of her ex-husband […] decades after her divorce.
“I am sure many people told you so, so…”
A non-solution
“Just start using the new name + note on your website/ORCID/…”
Have to disclose the name change constantly, forever
Readers won't realize you and “old you” are same person
Someone who requested not long after me has been waiting just shy of a year
Supposedly allows fixing citations, but not aware of anyone having actually done it
IEEE (CVPR, T-PAMI, …)
Formerly a holdout
Instituted a policy last year; actually implemented pretty well
Allows fixing IEEE citations too! …of your IEEE papers
IEEE style uses initials, so I haven't “field-tested” this
but seems like if an IEEE paper cites your IEEE paper and your NeurIPS paper, and both names are fixed, would change the citation of the IEEE paper and not of the NeurIPS paper 🙄
AAAI
No public policy
They will change names, but implementation is bad
Months and months of ghosting me before I complained elsewhere in the org and my one paper (where I sent them a fixed PDF) finally got fixed
Other publishers
Dozens of publishers (for thousands of venues) tracked here
The big missing thing in general is updating citations
Semantic Scholar
Send an email: all papers fixed regardless of publisher
DBLP
Send an email (or in my case no email?), can get all papers immediately fixed regardless of publisher